Funda Ustek (Post-doctoral Researcher,
Department of Sociology, Goldsmiths, University of London)
On 28 November 2014, Can Candan’s multi-award winning
documentary “My Child” featuring the parents of LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual and
transgender) individuals in Turkey was screened at SEESOX with the
participation of the director Can Candan, co-producer H. Metehan Ozkan and parent
Sema Yakar. The documentary takes us through the journey of the parents of LGBT
individuals as they are intimately sharing their experiences of what it means
to be parents, family, activists in a conservative, blatantly homophobic and
transphobic society.
Though not officially illegal, homosexuality remains to be a
highly controversial subject in Turkey. The former Minister of State
Responsible for Women and Family Affairs, and a Member of Parliament for
Denizli of the ruling Justice and Development Party (AKP) was famously quoted
in 2010 when she declared that “Homosexuality is a biological disorder that
requires treatment”[1].
Recently, speaking in the Netherlands, President Recep Tayyip Erdogan objected
to a Dutch lesbian couple adopting a nine-year-old Turkish boy, stressing that
homosexuality is a “sexual preference” that conflicts with the “culture of
Islam”[2].
Turkish law also remains highly problematic when it comes to LGBT rights, with
ambiguous wording of “offenses against public morality” and/or “prohibitions of
public exhibitionism” often being used to justify penalising LGBT individuals.
While some attempts have been made by the main opposition party Republican
People’s Party (CHP) to provide protections against discriminations based on
sexual orientation, so far there has been little progress, if any. As an
example of the little interest in LGBT rights in Turkish politics, the
screening of My Child at the Turkish National Assembly in 2013 can be given.
Only 6 out of 548 MPs came to watch the screening[3].
Moreover, legal ambiguity presents itself in widespread
violence against LGBT individuals in a widely homophobic and transphobic
society, as 84% of Turkish people state that gays and lesbians were among the
groups they would least like living in their neighbourhoods according to the
2011 World Values Survey. In 2006, an LGBTT demonstration in Bursa could not be
carried out as Bursa football team fans were violently trying to block the
parade[4].
The first publicly acknowledged “gay honour killing” took place in 2008 when
Ahmet Yildiz was shot dead by his father[5].
Recently, a 24-year old trans-woman Dora Ozer was stabbed to death in her own
home[6],
adding to the long list of 69 LGBT individuals who have been murdered in Turkey
since 2002[7].
It is against this uneasy background Can Candan proposes to
look at LGBT individuals in a different light in Turkey. The documentary reveals
the experiences of parents of LGBT individuals as they discover and re-discover
their relationship with their children (not sons or daughters) when they came
out to them. In an attempt to redefine what “family” means, the documentary
shows the intimate stories of parents facing the “difficult” truth about their
children, coming to accept it and then founding and becoming activists for
LISTAG (Families of LGBT in Istanbul) fighting for the rights of LGBT
individuals in Turkey.
“My Child” is a powerful documentary, leaving you both
speechless and wanting to shout as loud as you can at the same time. The
discussion at SEESOX after the screening showed how much the audience were
moved by the documentary, and how extraordinary they thought the parents participated
in this film were. Can Candan noted that LISTAG families were indeed
inspirational and courageous to be activists for LGBT rights in Turkey and also
take part in this documentary, but that the whole idea behind showing the
parents instead of the children was to show that LGBT individuals in Turkey are
not some “perverts” or “sick people” but that they are the children next door,
or the kid we met in school, and only through recognising them as part of our
society, as not some sons or daughters but “our children”, we can overcome the
shame, stigma and hate towards the LGBTs.
“My Child” makes an important case for a fundamental
rethinking and transformation of LGBT rights in Turkey, especially when LGBT
individuals are mostly perceived as marginal members of the society, or social
outcasts, due to the prevailing homophobic and transphobic prejudices. If you
have missed this wonderful opportunity to see the documentary at SEESOX, you
can follow www.mychilddocumentary.com
for new screening possibilities, order its DVD or watch it online at http://onlinefilm.org/en_EN/film/59254.
[1] http://www.hurriyetdailynews.com/default.aspx?pageid=438&n=8216homosexuality-is-a-disease8217-says-minister-2010-03-07
[2] http://www.jpost.com/International/Erdogan-Gays-contrary-to-Islam-307797
[3] http://yesilgazete.org/blog/2013/04/16/benim-cocugum-belgeselinin-tbmm-ozel-gosterimine-ilgi-dusuk-kaldi/
[4] http://www.kaosgldergi.com/sayi.php?id=91
[5] A
recent feature film documents Ahmet Yildiz’s story: “Zenne Dancer” (2012),
directed by Caner Alper and Mehmet Binay. http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1934487/
[6] http://transcinayetleri.tumblr.com/
[7]
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